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Change your problems into Success

 

“What is the difference between the winner and loser

The loser loses 4 times and gives up

The winner also loses 11 times but succeeded in the 12th time

To succeed in life you have to learn to handle failure

 You have to learn to handle problem”

 

 Is there anybody here who doesn't have problems? Of course not, what we need to learn most important in life is your attitude towards problems. So the first thing then is to expect problems. As Murphy’s law states if anything can go wrong, it will. Many people when they have a problem in their work they said “Ohh God I have got a problem”. However the only way you can justify your job is that there are problems which you are solving ,if there were no problems that you cannot justify why you’re getting paid. So expect problem just like when you are going uphill your climbing a hill you know the going will be tough. So how do you know that you are progressing the sign is there are problems which they are arising. And if no problems are arising you are not progressing.

 

The second thing is to anticipate them. See if a child is born, people would think he would be Bill Gates. And when he turned out to be Bin Laden after 16 years, that’s it everything will finish off. Why did you not anticipate that these problems can happen. So anticipate, don't feel surprised for any problem.

 

 And the third thing is to face the problem not like the ostrich you put your head in the mud and there is no problem. So face the problem. Just by ignoring the problem it doesn't go away so the proper attitude is to face the problems accept that there is a problem. And then put the problem in its proper perspective don't blow it out of proportions it is only a problem

 

One girl graduated from school and then she went to college and after 3 months in a college dormentory she wrote a letter to her mother it was a handwritten note which was delivered by post, so the mother was so delighted that ‘I am receiving the message from my darling daughter.’ So the message she started reading ‘my dear mom I need to confess to you that after one month in the dormentry I made a mistake’. So the mother’s heart comes into mouth what mistake then she continued to reading in a very pensive state, mother I actually stole $50 from my roommate and with that I rented a motorcycle and I was riding this motorcycle unfortunately I crashed into the electric pole and fractured my thigh bone.

 

The mother says ‘Ahh, such a big problem’ but mother there was nothing to worry about because there was a handsome doctor living in the same plane, he took me nursed me in his home and mother we have fallen in love and decided to get married. And the only problem is that there is some disease that keeps showing up in the blood test I hope it gets resolved before the child pops out. The mother said ‘what is going on here’ and mother I need you to know that after marriage my husband and I two are going to come and stay with you and dad because in nursing me he has lost his job and do know that he is from a different religion and he'll keep trying to convert you but I'm sure you will enjoy his company. The mother was pulling her hair out of the head. The last she had written mother actually none of this is true the only thing that happened is I got ‘F’ grade Math. I want you to see in its proper perspective. So put the problem in its proper perspective. .

 

That is the attitude towards the problem.  And then beyond that learn from the problem. In other words when you solve a problem you learn. So it is all right to make mistakes but not make same mistakes again. If you fall 19 times but get up 20 times if you stumble, it is to learn the secret of a better walking. So how do you learn from problems then. You see it all depends on your attitude. If you keep the proper attitude, these problems they become blessings in disguise.

 

When God puts problems in our path it's not because he hates or he wants to torture us, he wants us to face these hardships and become a better person by virtue of it. It is God's way of helping us fill our wings for the flight ahead. However in our lack of intelligence we don't understand. And we also look for somebody to snip away all the problems. Without realizing that growth and progress happens in facing difficulties and hardships.

 

So this is the attitude towards problems. If you have the right attitude that every problem can accelerate your growth by facing the problems. That is how you grow physically, mentally, emotionally in every way. So the secret to awaken your best self is persevering. That is ‘keep on going’ the one who persist will get the nectar at the end.





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